Day 5:
The Way I Love You

“Give me the space I’m craving to close, give me a smile and I’ll never let go”

"The Way I Love You" is an unflinching, bittersweet eulogy to unrequited love. When I first wrote the phrase, "Someday, somebody's gonna love me the way I love you", I found it heartbreaking.

It took time, healing, and finally experiencing healthy, reciprocal love to understand how hopeful a phrase it was. Acknowledging that one deserves better is the first step to receiving it. In wanting this song to be intimate and direct, I laid off pet names or metaphors.

As a result, it defies genre.


I wanted to personally show you my first live documentation of this song. It came from the heavy introspection of 2020, and all that stirred up. When everything comes to the surface, music is a good way to let it out. Music and art can be the safest place for heart.

The First Time Live


Studio BTS

Here’s today’s bit of a behind the scenes from the recording sessions at Plyrz Studios.


You’re all I ever want

Everything else is killing time

Talking big to lick my wounds

Building myself back up to size

You couldn’t be more far away

But I know that’s where you wanna be

You’re all I ever want

And I know you don’t want me

Give me a little more time to grow

I know I’ve had a lot but I need more

I thought today I’d wake up feeling brand new

And I’m banking on that day coming soon

Someday, somebody’s gonna love me the way I love you

Someday, somebody’s gonna love me the way I love you

You’ve made me who I am

And I’m proud of who that is

You’ve made me soft and gentle

You’ve opened up my ribs

Not even my wildest dreams could picture

Loving someone else like this

You’ve made me who I am

I don’t know how else to live

So give me the space I’m craving to close

Give me a smile and I’ll never let go

I thought my heart could only speak the truth

And I’m hoping I’ll be stronger soon

Someday, somebody’s gonna love me the way I love you

Someday, somebody’s gonna love me the way I love you

I’ll reach out my hand if you fall

But when I slip you don’t show up at all

I can’t be mad, I’m just seeing blue

I’ll learn to stop reaching soon

Someday, somebody’s gonna love me the way I love you

Someday, somebody’s gonna love me the way I love you

The way I love you

The way I love you

Lyrics